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Fetish and BDSM party – Sofia, 21.8.21

(Please inform yourself about our rules and dress code! We have made important changes and we don’t want you to miss the party due to a misunderstanding!) On August 21, 2021 (Saturday) at Contrast 2[…]

BDSM.bg has a forum

Visit our Forum where you can communicate with people form the BDSM community and be inspired. You can find it also in the Menu on the top left of the website.

What’s BDSM.bg for?

All of the site contents of the BDSM.bg site are sexually oriented. If that disturbs you in any way, please, skip us. The goal of BDSM.bg is to serve to those of us, who have[…]

BDSM.bg has become trilingual!

We are proud to announce that BDSM.bg has officially opened its doors towards our friends from all over the world (well, at least for those of you who speak English or Hungarian 😛 ) Take[…]

What’s BDSM better than vanilla with

Vanilla? Where did that come from? 🙂 Before we explain about the vanilla, let’s point out something important. In all of the articles we will be discussing the benefits of the BDSM culture. It is[…]

What is BDSM?

It’s hard to answer this question due to the thousands of diverse practices that encompass this abbreviation and also because of the multitude of variations among the relationships between partners that practice BDSM. We will[…]

The importance of consent

Consent is so important, that it can determine whether you will be having fun time or spending jail time. That’s the reason why both postulates in the BDSM culture circle around consent – “Safe sane[…]

What is aftercare?

This article is of significant importance. Please, pay attention to it! In short the “aftercare” is everything that the BDSM partners do for each other after the play has finished. Why do they need to[…]

Who wants pain?

With the exception of the masochists, who’s body naturally releases a lot more endorphins than most people or they do it from mental stimulation, the other people don’t really want to feel pain. Pain is[…]

What are the BDSM roles?

BDSM is a culture of diversity. The roles are also numerous, because everyone has their own individual dream and lives it their own way. Putting aside the basic rules for safe, sane and consensual, the[…]

A personal guide of a brat

I solemnly swear that I will not… Sing “hit me baby one more time” during a spanking. Squirt lube/squirty cream in his face and tell him I’m into ‘giving’ facials. Hide his spanking implements and[…]

About sexuality and shame

Hey, don’t despair from the length of this article. This topic is important for your peace of mind if you are new here and if you are interested in BDSM. Give yourself a chance Shame[…]

The hazy concepts in BDSM

Have strength to read through this article, dear reader! You can spare yourself a lot of bad vibes in the future. BDSM is a culture. It brings together the people who practice more or less[…]

Basics of domination

Based on my moderately humble experience both as a Top and bottom (up to Dominant and submissive) and also from my communication with many other BDSM practitioners I have reached my personal conclusions on the[…]

Rope bondage – is it really boring?

So far the Bulgarian BDSM community has been strongly influenced by the Western BDSM culture. In our conversations many have shared, that they don’t practice rope bondage, because they find it slow and boring. Some[…]

Rope bondage myths (part 1)

Author: Laerien Translation: Silent Teddy Bear Everybody starts this journey after meeting rope bondage somewhere, and that will obviously bring some ideas and preconceptions. This is all natural, after all, we see something that[…]

The responsibilities in BDSM

BDSM includes activities that can be dangerous if done without a clear mind (sanely), with attention to safety and consensually. The danger can be more than physical. A person can be hurt mentally if they[…]

The activities in BDSM

(at the end of the article there’s a bonus) We begin an infinite and constantly growing topic in an attempt to list some of the BDSM practices that we know of. Our goal with this[…]

What happens in our body during play

This article is written by AndyBaku on Fetlife.com and is posted with his permission. Pain and Kinbaku; or how I stopped worrying about the hurt started to love the high This is a text about[…]

Rope bondage myths (part 2)

Author: Laerien This part will deal with the effect of what we usually see in the kinky communities 🙂 I have to admit I am heavily affected as well. Suspensions “Suspensions are[…]

Coming out to a potential partner: awkward?

In this article I’ll address a complicated topic that I’m sure I can’t cover entirely. I let myself scratch the iceberg by sharing some of my personal experience, as well as what I’ve learned from[…]

What is shibari?

What is shibari in a few words? The Japanese erotic art of shibari (or kinbaku) is based on the martial art “hojojutsu” (techniques of apprehending captives with rope), that has been used in[…]

Meeting women in the BDSM communities

Let’s talk frankly about a sensitive subject, if I may – what are the major reasons why our communication with a new potential BDSM partner could fail? I allow myself to speak from the position[…]

Rope bondage video tutorials – shibari style

BDSM.bg has a goal to help the development of the BDSM culture in Bulgaria but also in communities in other countries. We think it’s always good to learn new skills and that’s why we share[…]

How to have a good time at a fetish party

Since the last few years people in Bulgaria have begun organizing fetish and BDSM parties, following the example of the more developed communities. There we can meet new people, talk openly about our interests with[…]

Consensual non-consent play – a topic for the advanced

It’s extremely important that I stress enough, that in this article I will write about role-playing games between mature, consenting, sane and responsible people. Everything is done for the pleasure and/or satisfaction of all partners.[…]

This is the beginning!

Welcome to the brand new Bulgarian website for BDSM, shibari and fetish culture! It’s main goal is to help those of us who like to add more or less additional flavors in our intimate relations;[…]