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BDSM.bg has become trilingual!
We are proud to announce that BDSM.bg has officially opened its doors towards our friends from all over the world (well, at least for those of you who speak English or Hungarian 😛 ) Take a look at the menu on the top left corner of the site and switch languages if you need to.
What’s BDSM better than vanilla with
Vanilla? Where did that come from? 🙂 Before we explain about the vanilla, let’s point out something important. In all of the articles we will be discussing the benefits of the BDSM culture. It is highly likely that we could sound a little overbearing towards the people who don’t embrace BDSM for themselves. We accept […]
What is BDSM?
It’s hard to answer this question due to the thousands of diverse practices that encompass this abbreviation and also because of the multitude of variations among the relationships between partners that practice BDSM. We will try to clarify the term as simple as possible. BDSM contains relationships and activities in the areas of Bondage & […]
The importance of consent
Consent is so important, that it can determine whether you will be having fun time or spending jail time. That’s the reason why both postulates in the BDSM culture circle around consent – “Safe sane & consensual” (SSC) and “Risk-aware consensual kink” (RACK). Everything that’s being done to someone without their consent is violence – […]
What is aftercare?
This article is of significant importance. Please, pay attention to it! In short the “aftercare” is everything that the BDSM partners do for each other after the play has finished. Why do they need to perform aftercare? The reason is that during a BDSM play a mix of hormones, neurochemicals and others gets released inside […]
Who wants pain?
With the exception of the masochists, who’s body naturally releases a lot more endorphins than most people or they do it from mental stimulation, the other people don’t really want to feel pain. Pain is not intended to be desired. Why then is there such a righ choice of BDSM activities that include causing of […]
What are the BDSM roles?
BDSM is a culture of diversity. The roles are also numerous, because everyone has their own individual dream and lives it their own way. Putting aside the basic rules for safe, sane and consensual, the rules of the play between the partners depend on their interests and agreement. We will share the way we see […]
A personal guide of a brat
I solemnly swear that I will not… Sing “hit me baby one more time” during a spanking. Squirt lube/squirty cream in his face and tell him I’m into ‘giving’ facials. Hide his spanking implements and replace them with Pokemon cards and chocolate bars. Use the Hitachi Wand as a pretend microphone. Say “now make me […]
About sexuality and shame
Hey, don’t despair from the length of this article. This topic is important for your peace of mind if you are new here and if you are interested in BDSM. Give yourself a chance Shame is one of the most destructive tools for controlling the masses. It has been used for centuries to discourage the […]
The hazy concepts in BDSM
Have strength to read through this article, dear reader! You can spare yourself a lot of bad vibes in the future. BDSM is a culture. It brings together the people who practice more or less standard role playing games, most often in sexual or otherwise intimate way and also people with non-standard fetishes. In this […]
Basics of domination
Based on my moderately humble experience both as a Top and bottom (up to Dominant and submissive) and also from my communication with many other BDSM practitioners I have reached my personal conclusions on the topic of “What characteristics does a dominant need to have to be worthy of their role?”. I’m sharing those conclusions […]
Rope bondage – is it really boring?
So far the Bulgarian BDSM community has been strongly influenced by the Western BDSM culture. In our conversations many have shared, that they don’t practice rope bondage, because they find it slow and boring. Some feel that it’s complicated. We agree that when we use handcuffs, heather cuffs, belts, shackles and other immobilization devices, putting […]
Rope bondage myths (part 1)
Author: Laerien Translation: Silent Teddy Bear Everybody starts this journey after meeting rope bondage somewhere, and that will obviously bring some ideas and preconceptions. This is all natural, after all, we see something that inspires us to want to try it, or to reach a goal. Some potential positive ways you first met rope […]
The responsibilities in BDSM
BDSM includes activities that can be dangerous if done without a clear mind (sanely), with attention to safety and consensually. The danger can be more than physical. A person can be hurt mentally if they are injured or if their trust and will gets abused. In this article we scratch the surface of a very […]
The activities in BDSM
(at the end of the article there’s a bonus) We begin an infinite and constantly growing topic in an attempt to list some of the BDSM practices that we know of. Our goal with this article is to help the new people in our community to enrich their fantasy with activities they may possibly like. […]
What happens in our body during play
This article is written by AndyBaku on Fetlife.com and is posted with his permission. Pain and Kinbaku; or how I stopped worrying about the hurt started to love the high This is a text about brains neurotransmitters how they affect us when practicing Kinbaku (Japanese rope bondage) or any kind of BDSM for that matter. […]
Rope bondage myths (part 2)
Author: Laerien This part will deal with the effect of what we usually see in the kinky communities 🙂 I have to admit I am heavily affected as well. Suspensions “Suspensions are the “real thing”, that is THE rope experience” / ”Yeah, this is all nice, but when do we GET TO […]
Coming out to a potential partner: awkward?
In this article I’ll address a complicated topic that I’m sure I can’t cover entirely. I let myself scratch the iceberg by sharing some of my personal experience, as well as what I’ve learned from more skillful people in life or in BDSM compared to me. It usually takes at least two people to practice […]
What is shibari?
What is shibari in a few words? The Japanese erotic art of shibari (or kinbaku) is based on the martial art “hojojutsu” (techniques of apprehending captives with rope), that has been used in Japan from the year 1603 to 1868. After the years passed, these techniques died out and since the beginning of […]
Meeting women in the BDSM communities
Let’s talk frankly about a sensitive subject, if I may – what are the major reasons why our communication with a new potential BDSM partner could fail? I allow myself to speak from the position of a man who has used some of the unsuccessful approaches that I will share here. I don’t take myself […]
Rope bondage video tutorials – shibari style
BDSM.bg has a goal to help the development of the BDSM culture in Bulgaria but also in communities in other countries. We think it’s always good to learn new skills and that’s why we share with you video tutorials about how to practice rope bondage easily and risk-aware. We can use shibari (as a Japanese […]
How to have a good time at a fetish party
Since the last few years people in Bulgaria have begun organizing fetish and BDSM parties, following the example of the more developed communities. There we can meet new people, talk openly about our interests with like-minded guests and to have fun. As time passes ever more people start attending those parties – some are discovering […]
Consensual non-consent play – a topic for the advanced
It’s extremely important that I stress enough, that in this article I will write about role-playing games between mature, consenting, sane and responsible people. Everything is done for the pleasure and/or satisfaction of all partners. I do not condone any form of violence. Anything you may decide to apply from this article, you do at […]
This is the beginning!
Welcome to the brand new Bulgarian website for BDSM, shibari and fetish culture! It’s main goal is to help those of us who like to add more or less additional flavors in our intimate relations; to expand our understanding of the practices that we like and to enrich our culture in many areas. The Bulgarian […]