What are the BDSM roles?

BDSM is a culture of diversity. The roles are also numerous, because everyone has their own individual dream and lives it their own way. Putting aside the basic rules for safe, sane and consensual, the rules of the play between the partners depend on their interests and agreement. We will share the way we see […]

A personal guide of a brat

I solemnly swear that I will not… Sing “hit me baby one more time” during a spanking. Squirt lube/squirty cream in his face and tell him I’m into ‘giving’ facials. Hide his spanking implements and replace them with Pokemon cards and chocolate bars. Use the Hitachi Wand as a pretend microphone. Say “now make me […]

The hazy concepts in BDSM

Have strength to read through this article, dear reader! You can spare yourself a lot of bad vibes in the future. BDSM is a culture. It brings together the people who practice more or less standard role playing games, most often in sexual or otherwise intimate way and also people with non-standard fetishes. In this […]

Rope bondage – is it really boring?

So far the Bulgarian BDSM community has been strongly influenced by the Western BDSM culture. In our conversations many have shared, that they don’t practice rope bondage, because they find it slow and boring. Some feel that it’s complicated. We agree that when we use handcuffs, heather cuffs, belts, shackles and other immobilization devices, putting […]

The responsibilities in BDSM

BDSM includes activities that can be dangerous if done without a clear mind (sanely), with attention to safety and consensually. The danger can be more than physical. A person can be hurt mentally if they are injured or if their trust and will gets abused. In this article we scratch the surface of a very […]

The activities in BDSM

(at the end of the article there’s a bonus) We begin an infinite and constantly growing topic in an attempt to list some of the BDSM practices that we know of. Our goal with this article is to help the new people in our community to enrich their fantasy with activities they may possibly like. […]

What happens in our body during play

This article is written by AndyBaku on Fetlife.com and is posted with his permission. Pain and Kinbaku; or how I stopped worrying about the hurt started to love the high This is a text about brains neurotransmitters how they affect us when practicing Kinbaku (Japanese rope bondage) or any kind of BDSM for that matter. […]